Signature Talks by - Shani B.B. Jones
The Pleasure is Yours
How consent, power, and personal clarity change everything.
This isn’t just about sex — it’s about reclaiming ownership of your body, your voice, and your choices. A bold conversation on pleasure, power, and why consent is non-negotiable in every area of life.
Speech Highlights:
✅ How consent impacts confidence, relationships, and success.
✅ Reframing power — personally and professionally.
✅ Tools for communicating needs without apology.
Play Life to Win
Strategies for living well, aging boldly, and loving on your own terms.
Your best years aren’t behind you. Shani B.B. Jones breaks down how grown folks can rewrite the rules on confidence, connection, and success — because playing small was never part of the plan.
Speech Highlights:
✅ How aging can unlock — not diminish — confidence and desire.
✅ The hidden connections between pleasure, purpose, and performance.
✅ Real-life tools for building a life (and love life) that fits you now.
What They Never Taught You
Real sex ed for real adults — and the myths we carry.
Most of us grew up misinformed, ashamed, or just plain confused. This talk exposes the lies, fills the gaps, and leaves audiences equipped with the knowledge they should’ve gotten the first time around.
Speech Highlights:
✅ The biggest myths that limit adult relationships and pleasure.
✅ Why sexual wellness is part of success — not separate from it.
✅ Practical takeaways for creating more pleasure, safety, and clarity in every area of life.
🌟 Coaching with Shani “B.B.” Jones
Let’s be real: if what you’ve been doing was working, you wouldn’t be here right now. You wouldn’t be searching for something different, something stronger, something that finally sticks.
That’s where I come in.
I’m Shani “B.B.” Jones — Certified Sex Coach, Educator, Master NLP Practitioner, and Lifestyle Strategist. With 20+ years of strategy experience at the highest levels and a bold, disruptive approach to sex and life, I help people unlearn the lies they were taught and finally live with clarity, power, and pleasure.
Coaching with me is not about fluff or theory. It’s about cutting through the bullshit, practicing real strategies, and building a life you don’t need to escape from.
✨ Coaching is an investment in yourself — because you deserve better.
Option 1: The Basics – $97
For when you need quick clarity and accountability.
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45-minute private coaching call
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Personalized text follow-up to check in and keep you accountable
💡 Perfect for jumpstarting your motivation or breaking through one specific block.
Option 2: The Core Package – $497
For clients ready to go deeper and start building momentum.
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3 coaching sessions
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Each includes a 45-minute private coaching call
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Plus a 30-minute virtual or in-person practice session (your choice)
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Customized assignments between sessions
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Light text check-ins to keep you on track
💡 This is where strategy meets practice — not just talk, but action that sticks.
Option 3: The Full Transformation – $997
For clients who are done playing small and ready to redesign their life.
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6 coaching sessions
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Each includes a 45-minute private coaching call
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Plus a 30-minute virtual or in-person practice session (your choice)
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Deeper assignments that tie directly to your goals
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Priority text support throughout the program
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Extra resources curated for your journey
💡 This is the full transformation package: clarity, strategy, practice, and consistent support to unlearn old lies and claim the life you deserve.
⚠️ One-on-one coaching spots are limited. Because this work is personalized and hands-on, packages are only available to a small number of clients at a time. Scheduling requires coordination to ensure the right fit.
👉 Next Step: I’m Ready — submit your inquiry through the contact form, and we’ll coordinate your package and schedule from there.
What People Are Saying
Professional Impact – Conference Organizer
"Shani B.B. Jones brought the house down. Her session was standing-room only, and not just because of her presence — but because she speaks to something so many are afraid to name: the intersection of sexuality, identity, and healing. Our attendees walked away empowered, educated, and asking for more. She’s the kind of speaker who doesn’t just fill a time slot — she shifts the entire atmosphere."
— Dr. Rachel Kim, Director of Adult Wellness Programming, The Summit Institute
Relatable & Real – Audience Member
"I didn’t expect to cry. I also didn’t expect to laugh as hard as I did — or to feel like someone finally got what I’ve been struggling with in silence for years. Shani doesn’t tiptoe around hard truths. She’s bold, real, and knows how to make everyone in the room feel seen. If you get a chance to hear her speak, take it. You’ll leave different."
— T. Carter, Middle School Teacher & Single Mom of Three
Transformational – Coaching Client Turned Attendee
"Before I heard Shani speak, I was surviving. After, I started living. Her words helped me connect the dots between my relationships, my pleasure, and the way I was shrinking myself. She didn’t offer fluff — she offered freedom. It was the push I needed to stop settling and start showing up as my full damn self."
— A. Wells, Retired Military Vet & Proud Grandmother
Male Perspective – Open-Minded but Hesitant Attendee
"I came to support my sister, not expecting much. I left questioning everything — in the best way. Shani has a way of making you feel safe enough to be uncomfortable. She doesn’t just talk about sex or relationships; she talks about power, healing, and what it really means to be a whole man. I walked in skeptical. I walked out better."
— Marcus D., Firefighter & Girl Dad
Corporate Perspective – HR/DEI Professional
"Shani is the kind of speaker every progressive organization needs. She brings a rare mix of emotional intelligence, clinical expertise, and cultural competency to the table. Her keynote helped our team connect the dots between personal wellness, professional performance, and inclusion in a way that was both challenging and energizing. This wasn’t just a talk — it was a wake-up call."
— Jillian Reyes, VP of DEI Strategy, InsightWorks Consulting
Lifestyle/Kink Community
"Shani speaks our language — but she also helps us translate it for ourselves. I’ve been part of the lifestyle for over a decade, and I’ve never seen someone create space for curiosity and consent the way she does. Whether you're seasoned or just starting to explore, her words hit deep. She’s the real deal."